Bullying Is a Cry that “Something, Somewhere, Is Not Right”

As we approach Pink Shirt Day, in our continued effort to eliminate bullying, we need to think of the victims of abusive behaviour but we also need to consider the bully. “Bullies aren’t born – and they aren’t bad people,” says George Bielay, Clinical Director at Waypoint Counselling and Referral Centre in Victoria. “It’s their…

Valentines Day Survival Guide For Singles in Canada’s Most Romantic City

Love is in the air – but what do you do if you’re alone in Canada’s most romantic city? WayPoint Counselling has some survival tips for the thousands of single men and women who are coping with all the excitement around Valentine’s Day. “Not everyone is in the mood for love,” says WayPoint clinical director…

This Valentine’s Day, Remember Your Friendship with Your Partner

Welcome to WayPoint Counselling and Referral Centre’s February 2015 newsletter.  As Valentine’s Day approaches, many of us who have been in longterm relationships may be wondering, yet again, what do we do for Valentine’s Day? Is it even worth it?  We’ve been together for so long, that Valentine’s Day simply doesn’t apply to our relationship.  Once…

Change Negative Thinking and Change Your Mood

Change your Mood:  It’s Possible! During an average day, we have approximately 50 000 thoughts. That’s a lot!  Now consider the impact if most of those have a negative tone. Not good, right?  That’s how depression, anxiety and anger can develop into problematic emotional states. Negative thinking is a main feature of depression, anxiety and anger.  Indeed,…

Sticking to Your New Year’s Resolution

Planning to lose weight? Start exercising? Stop smoking? Welcome to WayPoint Counselling and Referrals Centre’s January 2015 newletter. Happy New Year to all.  If you made a New Year’s resoution, actually making it happen can be tougher than you think. The frustration of an unused gym membership can make the early new year months feel hopeless….